,9T]VIEW ) AN AN>*I/ DOM9ATRIX ,PEOPLE 3 ,AU?OR 3 ,ORGANISE6 ,TEXT 3 ,= TWO YE>S ,MI/RESS ,V5US WAS A PR(ESSIONAL DOM9ATRIX 9 C5TRAL ,LONDON4 ,%E'S ALSO AN AN>*I/ COMMUNI/4 ,SO1 WE AT ,ORGANIZE6 ?\LY-HELD BELIEF1 ALSO PREVAL5T AMONG ! LEFT & SOME AN>*I/S1 ?AT ANYONE 7P>TICUL>LY FEMALE7 :O WORKS 9 ! SEX 9DU/RY1 IS 9 SOME WAY A VICTIM & HAS BE5 =C$ 9TO ?AT SITUATION4 ,H[ REALI/IC IS ?IS VIEW8 ,MI/RESS ,V5US3 ,I ?9K IT'S V]Y IMPORTANT TO MAKE DI/9CTIONS BETWE5 WORK]S 9 DIFF]5T >EAS ( '! SEX 9DU/RY'4 ,! ROLE PLAY$ BY A GIRL WORK+ ! /REETS IS V]Y DIFF]5T FROM ! ROLE 7AS ?AT'S EXACTLY :AT IT IS7 PLAY$ BY A PR(ESSIONAL DOM9ATRIX4 ,SPEAK+ FROM P]SONAL EXP]I5CE1 MY DECISION TO WORK AS A DOM9ATRIX WAS PURELY MY [N *OICE & WAS SOME?+ ,I WANT$ TO DO4 ,IT WAS AN EXT5SION ( HAV+ SP5T YE>S GO+ TO FETI% CLUBS & P]=M+ AS A FETI% MODEL4 ,I KNEW ! SC5E1 ! ROLES PLAY$ & EXACTLY :AT WAS 9VOLV$4 ,I HAD NO ILLUSIONS AB\T IT & ,I WAS 9 NO WAY CO]C$ 9TO IT4 ,I KEPT MY DAY JOB 7WORK+ 9 A %OP71 WORK$ :5 ,I WANT$ TO & UNLIKE MANY1 HAD NO MONET>Y PRESSURES ,I WAS =C$ 9TO SUPPORT+4 ,I MU/ ADMIT ?AT ! APPROA* ,I TOOK WAS A V]Y PRACTICAL ONE3 ,I ONLY EV] WORK$ ) AT LEA/ ONE O!R DOM9ATRIX1 :O WORK$ AS MY 'MAID'4 ,& SOMETIMES A MALE COLLEAGUE /AY$ )9 ! BUILD+ & HELP$ SET UP ! 'SESSIONS'4 ,SESSIONS W]E PRE->RANG$1 ) ! 'CLI5T' & MYSELF BO? DISCUSS+ \R [N LIMITS & EXPECTATIONS1 ?\< OBVI\SLY NOT ALL SEX WORK]S >E AF=D$ ?IS LEVEL ( CO-ORD9ATION & SUPPORT6 ,!RE'S A V]Y DIFF]5T ATTITUDE FROM ! 'CLI5T' T[>DS A DOM9ATRIX1 COMP>$ TO ?AT T[>DS A GIRL ON ! /REETS1 ,I ?9K4 ,TO MY 'CLI5TS'1 ,I WAS ! EMBODIM5T ( !IR DESIRES4 ,!Y WOR%IP$ EV]Y?+ AB\T ME1 & ,I HAD ! P[] TO CONTROL :E!R !Y W]E ALL[$ TO EV5 LOOK AT ME4 ,&1 IF !Y DISPLEAS$ ME1 !Y CLEAN$ MY BA?ROOM \T ) A TOO?BRU%6 ,!RE WAS NEV] ANY SEX 9VOLV$ 9 ! 'SESSIONS'4 ,! SEXUAL 5]GY FROM ! CLI5T IS D]IV$ FROM ! PLAY+ & REV]SAL ( P[] ROLES1 FROM A =M ( HUMILIATION & DEGRADATION ABS5T FROM !IR 'NORMAL' DAILY LIVES4 ,?AT'S NOT TO SAY1 H[EV]1 ?AT ,I DIDN'T1 AT TIMES1 FEEL US$1 OR /OP & QUE/ION JU/ EXACTLY :AT ,I WAS DO+4 ,9 FACT1 AT TIMES1 IT S]V$ TO RE9=CE IDEAS ,I'D PREVI\SLY HELD AB\T ! EXPLOITATION ( WOM5 BY M51 P>TICUL>LY1 9 ! CASE ( A DOM9ATRIX1 SOMETIMES V]Y RI* & P[]FUL M56 ,ULTIMATELY1 ,I /OPP$ ?\<4 ,I *OSE TO GIVE IT UP4 ,I WASN'T 9T]E/$ 91 OR 5RAPTUR$ BY1 ! MONEY IT BR\*I/8 ,M,V3 ,DUR+ A DOM9ATION SESSION BO? P>TIES >E CONS5T+ ADULTS :O *OOSE TO P]=M !IR P>TICUL> ROLE -- :E!R IT BE ! ROLE ( ! MA/]1 ! ALL-P[]FUL OPPRESSOR1 OR ?AT ( ! WEAK1 OPPRESS$ SLAVE -- & *OOSE !IR [N LIMITS4 ,! SESSION IS AN ESCAPE FROM REALITY2 A P]=MANCE :]E ! CLI5TS 5T] ! REALM ( !IR IMAG9ATION1 & BRIEFLY LIVE \T FETI%ES ?AT >E SCORN$ 9 ?IS SOCIETY4 ,! ROLES WE PLAY MIRROR ! P[]BAS$ CAPITALI/IC SOCIETY WE LIVE 9 TODAY1 A SOCIETY ( GRE$1 OPPRESSION & SUBV]SION1 A SOCIETY ( =CE1 SIL5CE & PA94 ,?IS IS 9 NO WAY REPRES5TATIVE ( ! LIFE/YLE ,I *OOSE TO LIVE 9 AS AN AN>*I/1 A SOCIETY BAS$ ON EQUALITY1 RESPECT & SELFGOV]NM5T4 ,DOM9ATION IS A GAME1 ! ADULT'S V]SION ( :AT *ILDR5 CALL 'PLAY+'4 ,IT'S NOT REAL &1 = ME P]SONALLY1 IT DOES NOT REFLECT ELEM5TS ( MY P]SONALITY4 ,I 5JOY ! SESSIONS AS A P]=M]1 AS AN EXP]IM5T] & AS AN EXHIBITIONI/444 ,IT'S ! ATT5TION ,I CRAVE4 ,! ?RILL ( P[] & CONTROL IS A NOVELTY 9 A GAME1 NOT SOME?+ ?AT ,I DESIRE TO BE PRES5T 9 MY 'REAL LIFE'4 ,I ?9K IT IS V]Y IMPORTANT1 9 A SOCIETY BAS$ ON FRE$OM1 ?AT PEOPLE %\LD BE ABLE TO EXPRESS !MSELVES & !IR FETI%ES & FANTASIES FREELY & 9 A SAFE 5VIRONM5T 7PROVID+ ALL P>TIES >E CONS5T+71 :E!R ?OSE FETI%ES 9VOLVE BE+ :IPP$ AS A NAULI]1 Y\ M5TION$ ?AT Y\R WORK SOMETIMES RE9=C$ ISSUES >\ND ! EXPLOITATION ( WOM5 BY M54 ,DID Y\ FEEL Y\ W]E MORE EXPLOIT$ ?AN Y\ MIE USUALLY REV]S$4 ,DUR+ ! SESSIONS ! FEMALE DOM9ATRIX BECOMES ! P[] HOLD]1 TAK+ CONTROL OV] ! MALE4 ,?IS IS A MIRROR+ ( ! PATRI>*AL SOCIETY WE 9HABIT TODAY2 :]E MALES TRADITIONALLY HAVE ! 'BE/' JOBS1 ! HI<] WAGES1 ! POSITIONS ( P[] 9 SOCIETY & ! HOME2 & :]E ! MALE IS SE5 AS ! ALLAU?ORITATIVE FIGURE 9 CONTROL4 ,?R\<\T ! WORLD1 HI/ORY IS TOLD ?R\< ! EYES ( ! MALE1 & WOM5 >E REPRESS$ ?R\<1 = EXAMPLE1 RELIGION1 VIOL5CE1 EXPLOITATION & 9EQUALITY4 ,! ROLE ( ! DOM9ATRIX TEMPOR>ILY RECLAIMS SOME ( ?IS P[] & H&S IT BACK TO ! WOMAN2 ONE MI5A :]E WOM5 USE !IR BODIES AS AN OBJECT = SALE4 ,& BE+ A DOM9ATRIX IS /ILL MAK+ A LIV+ US+ ! 'BE+' & BODY AS AN OBJECT1 REG>DLESS ( :O WIELDS ! SO-CALL$ 'P[]' = ! DURATION ( ! SESSION 7OR :O HOLDS ! :IP674 ,(T51 YES1 ,I WAS LEFT FEEL+ AS ?\< ,I HAD BE5 EXPLOIT$1 POSSIBLY MORE SO ?AN IF ,I HAD A MORE 'CONV5TIONALLY ACCEPTABLE' OR 'NORMAL' JOB4 ,REG>DLESS ( ! FACT ?AT ,I 5JOY$ ! ROLE PLAY & 5JOY$ ! ESCAPISM1 ! CO/UME & GR&EUR ( ! P>T1 ,I /ILL FELT AS ?\< MY BODY HAD BE5 US$ BY ANO!R P]SON AS SOME?+ !Y HAD CONTROL OV]1 SIMPLY BY ! FACT ?AT !Y W]E PAY+ = ! SESSION1 PAY+ = ME TO DRESS UP 9 A C]TA9 WAY & BEHAVE 9 A C]TA9 WAY AT A C]TA9 TIME 7EV5 ?\< WE C\LD SAY ! SAME AB\T A NUMB] ( ROLES WE PLAY 9 \R LIFE674 ,I BELIEVE ! BODY IS ! LA/ ASPECT ( \R LIVES WE HAVE ANY CONTROL OV]4 ,?IS EXPLA9S ! L>GE & GR[+ AM\NT ( 9T]E/ 9 FETI%ES SU* AS BODY ADORNM5T & MODIFICATION 7TATTOOS1 PI]C+S1 SC>IFICATION ETC74 ,& :5 IT DAWNS ON ME ?AT ,I AM MAK+ A LIV+ BY SOMEONE ULTIMATELY CONTROLL+ :AT ,I AM DO+ ) MY BODY1 ! ELEM5T ( H[ MU* *OICE ,I HAVE OV] MY BODY & LIFE HAS TO BE QUE/ION$4 ,!RE IS A FEEL+ ( HAV+ BE5 EXPLOIT$1 FELT BY NE>LY EV]YONE :O HAS TO WORK H>D 9 ?IS SOCIETY1 :I* IS BAS$ ON 9EQUALITY & DIVISION4 ,I'VE FELT IT :E!R ,I WAS WORK+ 9 A %OP OR 9 AN (FICE1 OR AS A CLEAN]1 :I* W]E MY PREVI\S PR(ESSIONS1 BUT ! FEEL+ ( HAV+ Y\R [N BODY EXPLOIT$ IS A MU* MORE RAW ONE1 A MU* MORE P]SONAL ONE1 ?AT DOES LEAVE Y\ FEEL+ 'NAK$'4 ,!RE IS A BIG DIFF]5CE :5 MONEY BECOMES 9VOLV$4 ,I SP5T YE>S GO+ TO FETI% CLUBS1 :]E ALL ! 'GAMES' & ACTIVITIES >E DONE BY *OICE ) WILL+ P>TICIPANTS1 EV]YONE 5JOY+ ! ROLE !Y PLAY$4 ,BUT :5 ! EX*ANGE ( MONEY BECOMES 9VOLV$1 ! ELEM5T ( *OICE IS GONE & ! REALMS ( 'BODY FASCISM' OP5 UP4 ,IF PEOPLE >E GO+ TO PAY = S]VICES1 !Y EXPECT Y\ TO LOOK A C]TA9 WAY6 ,H5CE ! FEEL+S ( EXPLOITATION CREEP 9TO ! NORMALLY PLEASURABLE >EAS ( Y\R LIFE4 ,O3 ,WE'VE SE5 ! POSITIVE 9ITIATIVE ( ! SETT+ UP ( ! ,9T]NATIONAL ,UNION ( ,SEX ,WORK]S 9 ?IS C\NTRY4 ,BUT1 MORE REC5TLY1 H[EV]1 AT LEA/ 9 ,LONDON1 !Y'VE AFFILIAT$ TO ! ,G,M,B4 ,N[1 OBVI\SLY1 ! ,A,F W\LD SEE ?IS MOVE T[>DS MA9/REAM TRADE UNIONISM AS RETROGRESSIVE4 ,BUT AS SOMEONE :O'S WORK$ 9 A JOB G5]ALLY ID5TIFI$ AS BE+ P>T ( ! SEX 9DU/RY1 :AT DO Y\ ?9K IS ! POT5TIAL = BETT] SEL=GANISATION AMONG SEX WORK]S8 ,M,V3 ,I ?9K !RE'S HUGE SCOPE = POT5TIAL1 JU/ AS !RE IS BETWE5 WORK]S )9 ANY 9DU/RY4 ,:AT IT NE$S1 H[EV]1 IS = V>I\S OB/ACLES TO BE OV]COME BO? BY \RSELVES & BY SOCIETY1 & = B>RI]S TO BE BROK5 D[N1 = EXAMPLE ! B>RI]S CREAT$ BY ! 'SEP>ATI/' ATTITUDES SO PREVAL5T BETWE5 WORK]S1 BO? )9 ! SAME BRAN* ( WORK OR )9 DIFF]5T BRAN*ES4 ,ONCE ?IS IS A*IEV$1 & WE ALL BEG9 TO REALIZE ?AT \R /R5G? & SUPPORT WILL /EM FROM \R WORK+ TOGE!R1 !N WE WILL BE /EPP+ CLOS] TO SELF-GOV]NM5T & ORGANIZATION1 AS OPPOS$ TO RESORT+ TO BE+ REPRES5T$ BY A BODY SO 9FLU5C$ BY1 & AFFILIAT$ TO1 ! ,LABOR ,P>TY6 ,BY IMPROV+ COMMUNICATION BETWE5 ! V>I\S WORK]S & BRAN*ES1 & A*IEV+ ! DE-/IGMATIZATION ( ! 9DU/RY BY SOCIETY1 WE CAN BEG9 TO CO-OP]ATE ) ONE ANO!R TO CREATE A UNIT$ BODY (F]+1 = EXAMPLE1 ADVICE & 9=MATION1 & GIV+ EMOTIONAL & PRACTICAL SUPPORT = PEOPLE1 BO? ALREADY )9 ! 9DU/RY1 & 5T]+ IT4 ,WE NE$ TO ABOLI% ALL =MS ( CONTROL ?AT >E SO COMMON )9 ! SEX 9DU/RY1 & ABOLI% ! DIFF]5T LEVELS ( P[]2 WE NE$ TO WORK AS ONE SO ?AT WE >E ALL 9=M$1 SAFE1 SUPPORT$ & UNIT$1 AS OPPOS$ TO WORK+ ALONE ?R\< =CE OR NE$1 9 SOMETIMES DANG]\S CONDITIONS4 ,SEX WORK1 9 ONE =M OR ANO!R1 WILL ALWAYS BE >\ND1 IT ALWAYS HAS BE51 & IT'S C]TA9LY NOT 9 ANY DANG] ( DISAPPE>+ -- :E!R WE LIVE 9 A CAPITALI/ SOCIETY OR EV5 9 A MONEYLESS AN>*I/ SOCIETY4 ,SEX WORK TAKES A MYRIAD ( DIFF]5T =MS & IS 5T]$1 US$ & LEFT = A MYRIAD ( DIFF]5T REASONS4 ,IT'S JU/ ?AT 9 ONE ( !SE SOCIETIES WORK]S )9 IT WILL CONT9UE TO BE EXPLOIT$1 MISREPRES5T$ & SCORN$ BY ?AT V]Y SOCIETY ITSELF1 & 9 ! O!R ONE WE WILL HAVE ! P[]1 ABILITY & MOTIVATION TO BO? BE \RSELVES & GOV]N \RSELVES6 ,FROM 3 ,!,AN>*I/,LIBR>Y4ORG4 ,*RONOLOGY 3 ,JANU>Y #b#b1 #bba 3 ,9T]VIEW ) AN AN>*I/ DOM9ATRIX -- ,ADD$4 ,JANU>Y #f1 #bbb 3 ,9T]VIEW ) AN AN>*I/ DOM9ATRIX -- ,UPDAT$4 FILE G5]AT$ FROM 3 HTTP3_/_/REVOLTLIB4COM_/