,LOVE & ! ,NEW ,MORALITY 

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,AU?OR 3 ,ALEX&RA ,KOLLONTAI 

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,TRANSLATION3 9 A PAMPHLET COMPIL+ ,SEXUAL ,RELATIONS & ! ,CLASS ,/RUGGLE & ,LOVE & ! ,NEW ,MORALITY 7PAGES #a#e-#b#f74 ,TRANSLATION BY ,ALIX ,HOLT4 ,PUBLI%$ BY ! ,FALL+ ,WALL ,PRESS1 #a#i#g#b4 
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,9 ! P]IOD FROM #a#i#a-#a#i#a#a ONW>D !RE WAS LESS TALK 9 ,RUSSIA AB\T ! PROBLEMS ( SEX4 ,BUT 9 ,G]MANY A PSY*O-SOCIOLOGICAL /UDY ( ! SEXUAL CRISIS WAS WRITT5 BY ,GRETE ,MEISEL-,HESS4 ,! BOOK WASN'T A SUCCESS ) ! G5]AL PUBLIC4 ,:]EAS ! NOVEL1 ,K>9 ,MI*AELIS1 PUBLI%$ NOT LONG BE=E & NOT D>+ TO SAY ANY?+ MORE ?AN IS PROP] 9 WRIT+ ( 'GOOD TA/E'1 CREAT$ A GREAT /IR 7AL?\< IT IS ( LITTLE >TI/IC VALUE74 ,! MA9 CRITICISM ( ,MEISEL-,HESS WAS ?AT H] WORK WAS 9T]E/+ BUT NOT SCI5TIFIC4 ,! BOOK ONLY MADE AN IMPRESSION AMONG ! 9TELLIG5TSIA1 ! SO-CALL$ 'CREAM' ( ,G]MAN SOCIETY1 :O GREET$ H] IDEAS EI!R ) SYMPA?Y & AGREEM5T OR ) HISS+ DISAPPROVAL4 ,?IS G5]ALLY HAPP5S :5 SOMEONE SETS \T TO F9D ! TRU?4 

,EV5 ?\< ,MEISEL-,HESS'S BOOK LACKS A :OLE NUMB] ( S*OL>LY QUALITIES-H] ME?OD ( RESE>* IS AT FAULT1 %E IS UNSY/EMATIC1 H] >GUM5T JUMPS & TWI/S & (T5 REPEATS SOME PO9T ALREADY MADE-?IS DOESN'T AFFECT ! IMPORTANCE ( H] WORK4 

,! BOOK HAS A FRE%NESS ( APPROA*4 ,ITS >GUM5TS >E SET D[N 9 ! /RONG VIGOR\S WAY ( SOMEONE TRY+ TO GET AT ! TRU?4 ,Y\ S5SE ?AT ?IS WOMAN HAS SE5 & EXP]I5C$ MU* 9 LIFE4 ,H] ?\<TS >E NOT NEW 9 ! S5SE ?AT !SE IDEAS >E 9 ! AIR1 !Y >E IMPLI$ 9 ! :OLE CLIMATE ( ATTITUDES T[>DS MORALITY4 

,EV]Y P]SON HAS SECRETLY BE5 LIV+ \T & ?9K+ \T !SE PROBLEMS4 ,9 TRY+ TO COME TO GRIPS ) !M EV]Y ?9K+ P]SON HAS COME BY ONE PA? OR ANO!R TO ! CONCLUSIONS PR9T$ ON ! PAGES ( ,! ,SEXUAL ,CRISIS4 ,BUT HYPOCRISY /ILL P]SUADES US TO B[ D[N 9 PUBLIC BE=E ! OLD & DEAD IDOL ( B\RGEOIS MORALITY4 ,MEISEL-,HESS IS LIKE ! *ILD 9 ,&]SON'S FAIRY /ORY3 %E HAS HAD ! C\RAGE TO CRY \T 9 A FE>LESS & COMPOS$ VOICE ?AT ! ,EMP]OR HAS NO CLO!S ON2 ?AT CONTEMPOR>Y SEXUAL MORALITY IS A PIECE ( EMPTY FICTION4 

,MORAL NORMS REGULAT+ SEXUAL LIFE CAN 9 FACT HAVE ONLY TWO AIMS3 

,CONTEMPOR>Y MORALITY FULFILLS NEI!R ( !SE AIMS2 IT S]VES ONLY ! 9T]E/S ( ,MAMMON1 ! 9T]E/S ( PROP]TY4 ,! :OLE COMPLICAT$ CODE ( PRES5T-DAY SEXUAL MORALITY-9DISSOLUBLE MONOGAM\S M>RIAGE1 BAS$ ONLY 9 R>E CASES ON ',]OS'1 ! WIDESPREAD 9/ITUTION ( COMM]CIAL PRO/ITUTION-F> FROM LEAD+ HUMANITY TO HEAL? & TO IMPROVEM5T CREATES ! SITUATION :]E 'SEXUAL SELECTION' IS TURN$ UPSIDE-D[N4 ,CONTEMPOR>Y MORALITY LEADS MANK9D 9 ! PA? ( DEG5]ATION4 

,PEOPLE :O M>RY HAVE TO PRACTICE 'SELF-CONTROL' DUR+ ?OSE YE>S MO/ SUITABLE = *ILD-BE>+4 ,PRO/ITUTION1 :I* HAS NO RESULT AS F> AS ! P]PETUATION ( ! RACE IS CONC]N$1 FL\RI%ES4 ,!RE IS NO 'EC/ASY ( LOVE' 9 M>RIAGES ( CONV5I5CE & ?IS HAS AN EFFECT ON ! PHYSICAL HEAL? ( ! *ILDR5 ( SU* FAMILIES4 ,) ! ACCEPTANCE ( 9DISSOLUBLE1 LEGAL M>RIAGE AS ! NORM1 ! MO/ 'MAGNIFIC5T EXAMPLES ( WOMAN-HOOD'1 ?OSE WOM5 MO/ CAPABLE ( BR++ \T ! ]OTIC 9 M51 >E FILT]$ (F 9TO PRO/ITUTION & REMA9 )\T *ILDR54 ,WE PRON\NCE ! 'S5T5CE ( DEA?' ON ! ILLEGITIMATE '*ILDR5 ( LOVE' :O >E (T5 ! MORE HEAL?Y1 FL\RI%+ & VALUABLE REPRES5TATIVES ( ! RACE4 ,!SE >E ! 9DIRECT RESULTS ( ! CURR5T MORALITY4 ,?IS MORALITY LEADS TO DE=MITY & PHYSICAL DET]IORATION1 TO ! PHYSICAL & MORAL DEG5]ATION ( ! HUMAN RACE4 

,MEISEL-,HESS'S ATTEMPTS TO SQU>E SEXUAL MORALITY ) ! DEM&S ( RACE HYGI5E DES]VE \R FULL ATT5TION4 ,H] >GUM5TS >E ( SPECIAL 9T]E/ TO ?OSE :O ACCEPT ! MAT]IALI/ 9T]PRETATION ( HI/ORY4 ,! DEM&S ( ! SOCIALI/ PROGRAM1 ! DEF5SE ( ! Y\NG WORK+ POPULATION1 ! PROTECTION ( MAT]NITY & *ILDHOOD1 ! /RUGGLE AGA9/ PRO/ITUTION ETC41 ALSO HAVE 'RACE HYGI5E' 9 ! WIDE/ S5SE AS !IR OBJECT4 ,TO DISLODGE ! HALO ?AT SEXUAL MORALITY POSSESSES ( BE+ AN UN*ANG+ & 'CATEGORICAL IMP]ATIVE'1 TO BR+ SEXUAL MORALITY 9 L9E ) ! PRACTICAL DEM&S ( LIV+ PEOPLE & ! DEM&S ( ! PROGRESSIVE SECTIONS ( HUMANITY3 !SE >E ! TASKS :I*1 )\T A D\BT1 >E /&+ 9 ! QUEUE & WAIT+ = A S]I\S & 9SPIR$ RESPONSE FROM SOCIALI/S4 

,AL?\< ,MEISEL-,HESS HAS VALUABLE IDEAS ON !SE QUE/IONS1 AN ANALYSIS ( ?IS SPECIAL P>T ( H] WORK W\LD MEAN LEAV+ ! B\NDS ( A BRIEF ESSAY4 ,!RE=E WE >E LIMIT+ \RSELVES TO A REVIEW ( ! O!R SIDE ( ! SEXUAL PROBLEM4 ,WE %ALL DEAL ) ! NO LESS 9T]E/+ & VALUABLE ANSW]S ?AT ,MEISEL-,HESS GIVES TO ! QUE/ION ( :E!R PRES5T DAY P]SONAL RELATION%IPS S]VE TO 5RI* ! HUMAN PSY*E ) FEEL+S ( SOLID>ITY & FRI5D%IP4 

,SUBJECT+ TO ANALYSIS ALL ?REE BASIC =MS ( RELATION%IPS BETWE5 ! SEXES-LEGAL M>RIAGE1 PRO/ITUTION & ! 'FREE UNION'-,MEISEL-,HESS COMES TO ! PESSIMI/IC CONCLUSION ?AT 9 A CAPITALI/ SY/EM ALL ?REE =MS EQUALLY BLOCK UP & DI/ORT ! HUMAN S\L2 !Y SMA% EV]Y HOPE ( CONT9U\S & REAL HAPP9ESS1 & ( G5U9ELY HUMAN RELATION%IPS BETWE5 PEOPLE4 ,:ILE !RE IS NO *ANGE1 :ILE ! HUMAN PSY*E REMA9S 9 ITS PRES5T /ATE1 !RE IS NO WAY \T ( ?IS CONT9U+ SEXUAL CRISIS4 

,WE CAN FL+ OP5 ! LOCK$ DOOR LEAD+ \T 9TO ! FRE% AIR1 & ON TO ! PA? TO CLOS]1 MORE LOV+ & CONSEQU5TLY HAPPI] RELATION%IPS BETWE5 ! SEXES ONLY IF ! HUMAN PSY*E IS *ANG$ RADICALLY & MAN'S 'POT5TIAL = LOV+' IS 9CREAS$4 ,SU* A *ANGE 9EVITABLY DEM&S ! BASIC TRANS=MATION ( SOCIO-ECONOMIC RELATIONS3 9 O!R WORDS IT DEM&S ! TRANSITION TO COMMUNISM4 

,:AT >E ! *IEF 9ADEQUACIES1 :AT >E ! D>K SIDES1 ( LEGAL M>RIAGE8 ,LEGAL M>RIAGE IS BAS$ ON TWO EQUALLY FALSE PR9CIPLES3 ?AT M>RIAGE %\LD BE =EV] & ?AT ! P>TN]S BELONG TO EA* O!R & >E EA* O!R'S PROP]TY4 

,! IDEA ( M>RIAGE-=-EV] IS 9 CONTRADICTION TO ALL ?AT PSY*OLOGICAL SCI5TI/S KN[ AB\T H[ ! PSY*E *ANGES DUR+ ! LONG C\RSE ( A HUMAN'S LIFE4 ,! DEM& MADE BY CONTEMPOR>Y MORALITY DES]VES TO BE LAU<$ AT3 EA* P]SON MU/ AT ALL CO/S 'F9D !IR HAPP9ESS'4 ,PEOPLE >E OBLIG$ TO SELECT /RAI<T AWAY & )\T MAK+ A MI/AKE ! ONE P]SON FROM AMONG ! MILLIONS ( !IR CONTEMPOR>IES ) :OM !IR S\L IS 9 H>MONY4 ,ONLY BY DISCOV]+ !IR 0SECOND SELF0 WILL !Y BE GU>ANTE$ A SUCCESSFUL M>RIAGE4 ,IF A P]SON-ESPECIALLY IF ?AT P]SON IS A WOMAN-9 GROP+ = ! IDEAL1 TE>S ! HE>T ON ! %>P ?ORNS ( LIFE'S DISAPPO9TM5TS1 SOCIETY1 P]V]T$ BY CURR5T MORALITY1 9/EAD ( COM+ =W>D TO HELP A FELL[ HUMAN BE+ 9 DI/RESS />TS VICTIMIZ+ ?AT P]SON4 0,SOCIETY MU/ CO]CE PEOPLE 9TO !IR 'HAPP9ESS'-?IS IS ! F9E FL[] ( \R SEXUAL MORALITY40 ,MOD]N SOCIETY DOESN'T C>E AB\T 9DIVIDUAL HAPP9ESS OR EV5 AB\T 'APPE>ANCES'4 ,SOCIETY HAS ! 9T]E/S ( PROP]TY AT HE>T & = ?IS REASON IS PREP>$ TO LOOK ON AN OP5 *ANGE ( RELATION%IP AS A GREAT P]SONAL 9SULT4 ,MEISEL-,HESS DRYLY PO9TS \T ?AT 0M>RIAGE IS LIKE A FLAT3 Y\ BECOME AW>E ( ITS D>K CORN]S ONLY :5 Y\'VE LIV$ 9 IT A :ILE4 ,IT'S H>D LUCK1 ( C\RSE1 IF Y\ HAVE TO *ANGE FLATS ALL ! TIME BECAUSE !Y TURN \T TO BE UNCOM=TABLE & 9ADEQUATE4 ,BUT ?AT'S BETT] ?AN BE+ =C$ BY CIRCUM/ANCES TO /AY 9 AN UNSUITABLE PLACE4 ,IT MU/ BE COMPLETELY ACCEPT$ BY SOCIETY ?AT A P]SON1 9 ! C\RSE ( HIS LONG LIFE & 9 ! PROCESS ( ! DEVELOPM5T ( HIS P]SONALITY1 WILL *ANGE SEXUAL P>TN]S40 

,IT SEEMS EV5 MORE ABSURD ?AT M>RIAGES %\LD BE 9DISSOLUBLE :5 Y\ BE> 9 M9D ?AT MO/ LEGAL M>RIAGES >E CONTRACT$ '9 ! D>K'2 ! M>RIAGE P>TN]S HAVE ONLY ! VAGUE/ IDEA ( EA* O!R4 ,!Y KN[ LITTLE AB\T ! P]SONALITY ( ! O!R & MORE ?AN ?AT !Y HAVE ABSOLUTELY NO IDEA IF !Y >E SUIT$ PHYSICALLY-& HAPP9ESS 9 M>RIAGE IS NOT POSSIBLE UNLESS !RE IS ?IS PHYSICAL H>MONY4 ',TRIAL NI<TS' :I* ACCORD+ TO ,MEISEL-,HESS W]E COMMON PRACTICE 9 ! ,MIDDLE ,AGES1 >E F> FROM BE+ 'ABSURDLY LACK+ 9 DEC5CY'4 ,9 A DIFF]5T SOCIAL 5VIRONM5T PEOPLE MI<T1 9 ! 9T]E/ ( ! HUMAN RACE & 9 ORD] TO 5SURE ! HAPP9ESS ( 9DIVIDUALS1 EX]CISE ?IS RI<T4 

,! IDEA ( PROP]TY & ! 'UNDISPUT$ RI<TS ( POSSESSION' ?AT ONE P>TN] HAS OV] ! O!R IS ! SECOND FACTOR POISON+ LEGAL M>RIAGE4 ,9 FACT Y\ GET ?IS RIDICUL\S SITUATION4 ,! COMPLICAT$1 MANY-SID$ P]SONALITIES ( TWO PEOPLE :O >E CLOSE TO EA* O!R ONLY 9 A FEW WAYS >E 'OBLIG$' TO SUIT EA* O!R 9 EV]Y WAY4 ',UNDISPUT$ POSSESSION' LEADS TO ! P>TN]S BE+ ALWAYS & 9CONV5I5TLY ) EA* O!R4 ,Y\ NO LONG] HAVE Y\R [N TIME1 Y\R [N WILL1 & BECAUSE ( ! ECONOMIC DEP5D5CE 9VOLV$1 Y\ (T5 DON'T HAVE EV5 Y\R '[N SEP>ATE CORN]'4 ,! CONT9UAL PRES5CE ( ! O!R P]SON & ! 9EVITABLY UNREASONABLE DEM&S MADE ON ONE1 AS ON A PIECE ( PROP]TY1 TURN EV5 A PASSIONATE LOVE 9TO 9DIFF]5CE & LEAD TO AN 9SUFF]ABLE NAGG+ OV] LITTLE ?+S4 ,Y\ REALLY HAVE TO AGREE ) ,MEISEL-,HESS ?AT :5 TWO PEOPLE LIVE ON TOP ( EA* O!R ALL ! TIME ! T5D] SPR+ FL[] ( EV5 ! MO/ LOV+ ATTA*M5T WILL BE KILL$4 ,Y\ NE$ TO HAVE SO MU* CONSID]ATION = ! O!R P]SON1 SU* A GREAT SUPPLY ( 'W>M?'1 IF Y\ >E TO DEVELOP \T ( ! FIR/ RU% ( PASSION ! RI* FRUITS ( A DEEP IRREVOCABLE EMOTIONAL ATTA*M5T1 =M$ 9 ! SUN ( MUTUAL W>M?4 

,! S5SE ( 'PROP]TY' & ( ! '=EV]NESS' ( LEGAL M>RIAGE HAS A H>MFUL EFFECT ON ! PSY*E2 A MAN HAS TO MAKE ONLY ! SMALLE/ EMOTIONAL EF=T TO PRES]VE ! EXT]NAL TRAPP+S ( AN ATTA*M5T S9CE ! P>TN] IS 9 ANY CASE RIVET$ TO HIM = LIFE4 ,! MOD]N =M ( LEGAL M>RIAGE IMPOV]I%ES ! S\L & 9 NO WAY HELPS MANK9D TO GA!R ! /ORE ( 'GREAT LOVE' :I* ! ,RUSSIAN G5IUS ,TOL/OY TALK$ ( & LONG$ =4 

,BUT ! O!R =M ( SEXUAL CONTACT-M]C5>Y PRO/ITUTION-DI/ORTS ! HUMAN PSY*E EV5 MORE4 0,:AT C\LD BE MORE MON/R\S ?AN ! ACT ( LOVE R$UC$ TO ! LEVEL ( A PR(ESSION80 ,LEAV+ ASIDE ALL ! SOCIAL POV]TY CONNECT$ ) PRO/ITUTION-ALL ! PHYSICAL SUFF]+1 ILLNESS1 DE=MITY & DEG5]ATION-LET US /OP TO CONSID] ! QUE/ION ( ! 9FLU5CE ( PRO/ITUTION ON ! HUMAN PSY*E4 ,NO?+ SO EMPTIES ! HUMAN S\L AS ! BUY+ ( PHYSICAL LOVE FROM A /RANG] OR ! SELL+ ( LOVE 9 ?IS WAY4 ,PRO/ITUTION EXT+UI%ES ! LOVE 9 PEOPLE'S HE>TS4 ,]OS FLIES AWAY 9 T]ROR FE>+ TO SOIL HIS GOLD5 W+S 9 A B$ SO BESPATT]$ ) DIRT4 

,PRO/ITUTION DE=MS A NORMAL ATTITUDE T[>DS SEX4 ,IT CRIPPLES & IMPOV]I%ES ! SPIRIT1 IT CUTS \T & TAKES AWAY :AT IS MO/ VALUABLE-! ABILITY TO FEEL ! PASSION & LOVE ?AT EXT5D & 5RI* ! 9DIVIDUAL BY GIV+ HIM A /ORE ( EMOTIONAL EXP]I5CE4 ,PRO/ITUTION DI/ORTS \R UND]/&+4 ,IT MAKES US SEE SOME?+ %AMEFUL1 L[ & CO>SELY ANIMAL 9 ONE ( ! MO/ S]I\S MOM5TS ( HUMAN LIFE-9 ! ACT ( LOVE1 9 ! F9AL H>MONY ( COMPLICAT$ EMOTIONAL EXP]I5CE4 

,:5 M5 PUR*ASE !IR PLEASURE !Y DON'T A*IEVE PSY*OLOGICAL FULFILLM5T1 & ?IS HAS A P>TICUL>LY P]NICI\S EFFECT ON ! MALE PSY*E4 ,) A PRO/ITUTE A MAN F9DS NO MOM5TS ( DEEPLY-FELT1 TRULY-]OTIC EC/ASY ?AT >E SOMEH[ TRANS=M+4 ,HE LE>NS TO COME TO A WOMAN ) 'L[]$' NE$S1 ) A PSY*E OV]SIMPLIFI$ & FAD$4 ,US$ TO SUBMISSIVE 'OBLIG+' C>ESSES HE NO LONG] WAT*ES ! COMPLICAT$ EMOTIONAL PROCESS WORK+ ITSELF \T 9 ! WOMAN1 HIS P>TN]4 ,HE CEASES TO 'HE>' & CAT* ! SUBTLE %ADE ( H] EMOTIONS4 ,H[ MANY ( ! SC5ES ?AT WOM5 MAKE >E SP>K$ (F BY ?IS 'SIMPLIFICATION' ( ! MALE PSY*E1 A SIMPLIFICATION ?AT TAKES PLACE 9 ! BRO!L6 ,PRO/ITUTION 9EVITABLY SPREADS D>K %AD[S EV5 OV] ! HEADS ( ! '9DEP5D5T' LOV]1 & OV] ! WOMAN :O LOVES NAIVELY & IS ?US EXPECT+ A LOT4 ,PRO/ITUTION RU?LESSLY POISONS ! JOY ( LOV+ = ?OSE WOM5 :O SEE ! SEXUAL ACT AS ! 'F9AL H>MONY' ( MUTUAL ALL-ABSORB+ PASSION4.<#b.> 

,A WOMAN NORMALLY LOOKS TO P]SONAL RELATION%IPS = FULFILLM5T & H>MONY4 ,BUT A MAN $UCAT$ 9 PRO/ITUTION HAS LO/ SI<T ( ! 9TRICATE VIBRATIONS ( FEEL+4 ,HE FOLL[S ONLY ! PALE MONOTONY ( PHYSICAL ATTRACTION & 5DS UP ) A FEEL+ ( UNFULFILLM5T & EMOTIONAL HUNG]4 ,! MUTUAL 'MISUND]/&+' ( ! SEXES GR[S4 ,! GREAT] ! 9DIVIDUALITY ( ! WOMAN1 ! MORE COMPLICAT$ H] EMOTIONAL NE$S & ! MORE ACUTE ! SEXUAL CRISIS BECOMES4 ,PRO/ITUTION IS DANG]\S JU/ BECAUSE IT HAS AN 9FLU5CE F> BEYOND ! CONF9ES ( ! BRO!L4 

,MEISEL-,HESS TALKS ( V5]EAL DISEASE & ! PHYSICAL WEAK5+ ( ! RACE4 ,WE %ALL LEAVE ?IS QUE/ION ASIDE & CONSID] ! O!R PSY*OLOGICAL MOM5T ?AT CA/S A %AD[ ON ! EMOTIONAL IMPULSES1 ?AT BLOCKS & DI/ORTS ! ]OTIC CONSCI\SNESS1 & LEADS TO A SITUATION :]E ! MUTUAL UND]/&+ ( ! MAN & WOMAN DISAPPE>S1 & !Y >E UNABLE TO 5JOY EA* O!R )\T MISUS+ EA* O!R4 ,ON ! B\ND>Y BETWE5 PHYSICAL & PSY*OLOGICAL EMOTIONS IS ! FEEL+ :I* DET]M9ES ! ACTIVITY ( MAN ?AT 9VOLVES ! CONT9UATION ( ! RACE4 ,& IT IS ?IS FEEL+1 ON :I* ALL HANGS1 ON :I* BO? ! 9DIVIDUAL & ! SOCIETY DEP5D1 ?AT IS RU?LESSLY DI/ORT$4 

,! ?IRD =M ( P]SONAL RELATION%IP1 ! 'FREE RELATION%IP' ALSO HAS ITS D>K SIDES4 ,A 'FREE RELATION%IP' DOES NOT SUCCE$ BECAUSE IT IS A REFLECTION ( ! TOTAL SITUATION4 ,! MAN ( TODAY BEG9S A 'FREE' RELATION%IP ) HIS PSY*E ALREADY DE=M$ BY FALSE & UNHEAL?Y IDEAS AB\T MORALITY4 ,HE HAS ALREADY BE5 $UCAT$ ON ! ONE H& BY LEGAL M>RIAGE & ON ! O!R1 BY PRO/ITUTION4 ,! 'FREE UNION' 9EVITABLY COMES UP AGA9/ TWO OB/ACLES3 \R 9ABILITY TO LOVE 7AN 9ABILITY ?AT IS ! ESS5CE ( \R ATOMIZ$ 9DIVIDUALI/IC WORLD7 & ! ABS5CE ( ! NECESS>Y LEISURE TIME = TRULY EMOTIONAL EXP]I5CE4 ,MOD]N MAN HAS NO TIME TO 'LOVE'4 ,9 A SOCIETY BAS$ ON COMPETITION1 9 A SOCIETY :]E ! BATTLE = EXI/5CE IS FI]CE & EV]YONE IS 9VOLV$ 9 A RACE = PR(IT1 = A C>E]1 OR = JU/ A CRU/ ( BREAD1 !RE IS NO ROOM LEFT = ! CULT ( ! DEM&+ & FRAGILE ,]OS4 ,POOR ,ASPASIA.<#c.> W\LD WAIT 9 VA9 !SE DAYS = ! FEA/ ( LOVE & JOY & = FRI5D%IP DECORAT$ ) ROSES4 ,%E C\LD NOT BR+ H]SELF TO BE ) A MAN ( CO>SE & UNWOR?Y EMOTIONS & ! MAN ( 'NOBLE SPIRIT' W\LD NOT HAVE ! TIME TO SP5D HIS EV5+S ) H]4 ,MEISEL-,HESS RI<TLY PO9TS \T H[ WIDESPREAD ?IS ATTITUDE IS3 MOD]N MAN LOOKS UPON LOVE & PASSION AS ! 'GREATE/ MIS=TUNE'1 AS SOME?+ ?AT CAN ONLY BE A BURD5 & PREV5T HIM ATT5D+ TO ! PROP] & REALLY IMPORTANT ?+S-! CONQUE/ ( POSITION1 CAPITAL1 ! ACQUISITION ( A SECURE JOB1 ( PRAISE ETC4 ,MAN AVOIDS ! POISON$ >R[S ( ,]OS1 HE AVOIDS BE+ CAU<T UP 9 A 'GREAT LOVE' ?AT MI<T DIV]T HIM FROM ! 'MA9 ?+S' 9 LIFE4 ,& A 'FREE UNION' 9 ! :OLE CONTEXT ( MOD]N LIFE DEM&S A MU* GREAT] AM\NT ( TIME & EMOTIONAL 5]GY ?AN EI!R REGI/]$ M>RIAGE OR MOM5T>Y & PUR*AS$ PLEASURE4 ',FREE' LOV]S >E USUALLY MORE ATTA*$ TO EA* O!R ?AN LEGAL P>TN]S & SP5D MORE TIME ) EA* O!R4 

,H[ MANY VALUABLE 'BUS9ESS' H\RS >E LO/ OV] ONE 'R5DEZ-V\S'4 ,!RE >E ?\S&S ( O!R DEMONS LY+ 9 WAIT = ! PAIR ?AT >E B\ND BY ! TIE ( LOVE ALONE-!RE >E MISUND]/&+S1 !RE IS TEMPOR>Y E/RANGEM5T & CONFLICT4 ,A 'UNION ( LOVE' 9 ! CONDITIONS ?AT EXI/ TODAY 5DS EI!R BY BREAK+ UP OR BY TAK+ ON ! =M ( LEGAL M>RIAGE4 ,! /RONG & COMPLETE MAN :O C\LD 9CLUDE LOVE )\T RISK 9 ! COMPLEX ( HIS LIV+ HAS NOT YET1 9 ,MEISEL-,HESS'S OP9ION1 EM]G$4 ,?AT IS :Y WE SEE ! M5 ( TODAY1 ABSORB$ BY ! C>ES ( BUS9ESS1 PREF]R+ TO OP5 !IR WALLETS & ACQUIRE = !MSELVES A 'KEPT WOMAN'1 OR PAY A WOMAN ) !IR 'NAME' & %\LD] ! BURD5 ( A LEGAL FAMILY1 RA!R ?AN WA/E !IR 'PRECI\S' TIME & 5]GY ON EXP]I5C+ LOVE4 

,! SAME DILEMMA FACES WOM51 P>TICUL>LY ?OSE WOM5 :O SUPPORT !MSELVES 7& 9 DEVELOP$ C\NTRIES ?AT MEANS #c-#d.074 ,LOVE OR A PR(ESSION8 ,! PROBLEM ( MAT]NITY FUR!R COMPLICATES ! POSITION ( ! WORK+ WOMAN4 ,IT IS 9 FACT WOR? LOOK+ ?R\< ! BIOGRAPHIES ( ALL \T/&+ WOM5 TO BE CONV9C$ ( ! 9EVITABLE CONFLICT BETWE5 ON ! ONE SIDE LOVE & HAV+ *ILDR5 & ON ! O!R A C>E] & A VOCATION4 ,P]HAPS IT IS JU/ BECAUSE ! 9DEP5D5T 'SP9/]' WOMAN1 9 GIV+ H] LOVE TO SOMEONE1 ?R[S ON ! SCALES ( HAPP9ESS NOT ONLY H] EMOTIONS BUT ALSO WORK ?AT IS DE> TO H] ?AT %E EXPECTS FROM ! MAN 9 RETURN A G5]\S PAYM5T1 '! RI*E/ GIFT'4 ,%E DEM&S HIS S\L4 

,! 'FREE UNION' SUFF]S BECAUSE !RE IS NO S5SE ( MORAL RESPONSIBILITY1 NO CONSCI\SNESS ( AN 9N] DUTY4 ,:ILE ! COMPLICAT$ /RUCTURE ( SOCIAL 9T]-RELATIONS REMA9S UN*ANG$ !RE IS NO GR\ND = ?9K+1 AS ! SUPPORT]S ( 'FREE LOVE' DO1 ?AT ?IS TYPE ( P]SONAL RELATION%IP WILL LEAD HUMANITY \T ( ! SEXUAL CRISIS4 

,IT C\LD BE AN ANSW] ONLY IF ! PSY*E HAD BE5 RADICALLY RE$UCAT$4 ,?IS RE$UCATION W\LD DEM& AS A NECESS>Y PRECONDITION ?AT ! BASIS ( SOCIAL LIFE1 :I* DET]M9ES IDEAS AB\T MORALITY1 BE ALSO *ANG$4 

,!RE IS NO?+ FUNDAM5TALLY NEW 9 ! SUGGE/IONS BR\<T =W>D BY ,MEISEL-,HESS CONC]N+ SOCIAL POLITICS1 LEGISLATION & RE=M4 ,!Y >E ALREADY IMPLI$ 9 ! RELEVANT DEM&S ( ! SOCIALI/S' PROGRAMS4 ,! DEM&S MADE BY SOCIALI/S-! ECONOMIC 9DEP5D5CE ( WOM51 PROTECTION 9 EV]Y POSSIBLE WAY = MO!RS & *ILDR51 ! /RUGGLE AGA9/ PRO/ITUTION AT ITS ECONOMIC BASE1 ! 5D ( ! CONCEPT ( 'LEGITIMATE' & 'ILLEGITIMATE' *ILDR51 ! REPLACEM5T ( *UR* M>RIAGE BY EASILY ALT]$ CIVIL M>RIAGE1 & A RADICAL RECON/RUCTION ( SOCIETY ALONG COMMUNI/ L9ES-COV] ALL ! PO9TS %E MAKES4 ,MEISEL-,HESS'S M]IT IS NOT ?AT %E HAS TAK5 ALL H] SOCIO-POLITICAL DEM&S FROM ! SOCIALI/S4 ,MU* MORE IMPORTANT IS ! FACT ?AT AL?\< NOT AN 'ACTIVE SOCIALI/' %E HAS1 9 H] S9C]E DESIRE = TRU? 9 SEXUAL MATT]S1 UNCONSCI\SLY F\ND ! ONLY WAY TO SETTLE ! SEXUAL QUE/ION4 ,H[EV]1 IF ALL SOCIAL RE=MS HAD BE5 PASS$ & ALL ! ESS5TIAL PRE-REQUISITES = NEW P]SONAL RELATION%IPS EXI/$1 ! SEXUAL CRISIS W\LD /ILL NOT BE SETTL$ UNLESS ! GREAT CREATIVE =CE ?AT CAN 9CREASE HUMANITY'S 'POT5TIAL = LOV+' HAD BE5 DEVELOP$4 

,MEISEL-,HESS HAS REA*$ ?IS CONCLUSION ?R\< 9TUITION & ! S9C]ITY ( H] APPROA*4 ,%E SEES ?AT ALL ! 5]GIES ?AT SOCIETY SP5DS 9 ! $UCATION & MOLD+ ( HUMAN EMOTIONS TO COPE ) P]SONAL RELATION%IPS MU/ BE DIRECT$ TO ?IS 5D4 

,ACCORD+ TO ,MEISEL-,HESS1 A M>RIAGE RELATION%IP BAS$ ON DEEP FEEL+ & EMOTIONAL & PHYSICAL H>MONY WILL CONT9UE TO BE ! IDEAL 9 ! FUTURE4 ,BUT ONE %\LD NOT =GET ?AT 'GREAT LOVE' IS A GIFT ?AT DE/9Y R>ELY GIVES1 IT FALLS ONLY TO A FEW *OS5 ONES4 ,! MAGICIAN 'GREAT LOVE' DOESN'T (T5 T\* \R HE>TS ) HIS 5*ANT+ ROD1 PA9T+ \R GRAY LIFE ) SUNNY COLORS4 ,MILLIONS ( PEOPLE NEV] KN[ !SE ALL-P[]FUL *>MS4 ,:AT >E WE TO DO ) !SE UN=TUNATE PEOPLE8 ,>E !Y TO BE LEFT TO ! COLD EMBRACES ( M>RIAGE )\T ,]OS8 ,OR TO PRO/ITUTION8 ,WILL PEOPLE ALWAYS BE FAC$ ) ! SAME CRUEL DILEMMA ?AT CONFRONTS US 9 CONTEMPOR>Y SOCIETY3 EI!R 'GREAT LOVE' OR ]OTIC HUNG]8 

,MEISEL-,HESS SEEKS & F9DS AN ALT]NATIVE4 ,:]E !RE IS NO 'GREAT LOVE' 'GAME-LOVE' %\LD TAKE ITS PLACE4 ,TO BE CAPABLE ( 'GREAT LOVE' HUMANITY MU/ PASS ?R\< ! DIFFICULT 'S*OOL ( LOVE' :]E ! EMOTIONS >E REF9$4 ',GAME-LOVE' IS ?IS S*OOL2 IT IS ! WAY = ! HUMAN PSY*E TO DEVELOP ITS 'POT5TIAL = LOV+'4 

,9 DIFF]5T =MS Y\ COME ACROSS 'GAME-LOVE' AT ALL /AGES ( ! LONG HI/ORY ( HUMANITY4 ,IT IS NOT DIFFICULT TO TRACE ! BASIC ELEM5TS ( ?IS RELATION%IP 9 ! BEHAVIOR ( ! HAETA]A.<#d.> ( ,ANCI5T ,GREECE & H] 'FRI5D'2 9 ! 'GALLANT LOVE' BETWE5 ! C\RTESAN & H] 'PATRON' LOV] AT ! TIME ( ! ,R5AISSANCE2 9 ! ]OTIC FRI5D%IP ( ! 'GRIZETKA'.<#e.>1 FREE & C>EFREE AS A BIRD1 & H] 'COMRADE-/UD5T'4 

,Y\ DON'T F9D H]E ! ALL-ABSORB+ ,]OS ) A TRAGIC FACE DEM&+ FULL & UNDIVID$ POSSESSION1 OR A CRUDE SEXUALISM ?AT CONF9ES ITSELF TO ! PHYSICAL ACT4 ,SANIS ) HIS OV]-SIMPLIFI$ PSY*O-PHYSIOLOGICAL MAKE-UP W\LD BE A POOR P>TN] 9 ! 'GAME-LOVE' ?AT ,MEISEL-,HESS DESCRIBES4 ,BECAUSE HUMAN EMOTIONS >E BE+ $UCAT$ & =M$ 9 ! PROCESS1 'GAME-LOVE' DEM&S A GREAT DELICACY1 PSY*OLOGICAL AW>5ESS & G5U9E & RESPONSIVE S5SITIVITY4 ',GAME-LOVE' IS V]Y DEM&+4 0,PEOPLE COM+ TOGE!R ON ! GR\NDS ( MUTUAL ATTRACTION ALONE EXPECT ! SMILES ( LIFE FROM EA* O!R4 ,!Y WON'T ALL[ SOMEONE TO PLAY ) !IR EMOTIONS & GO UNPUNI%$2 !Y >E NOT PREP>$ TO ADOPT A CASUAL ATTITUDE T[>D SOMEONE'S PSY*E1 AN ATTITUDE ?AT IGNORES ! 9T]NAL WORLD4 ',GAME-LOVE' DEM&S A F> MORE C>EFUL1 CONSID]ATE & ?\<TFUL RELATION%IP BETWE5 PEOPLE3 ONE ?AT WILL GRADUALLY BREAK !M FROM ?AT FA?OMLESS EGOISM :I* ACCOMPANIES ALL CONTEMPOR>Y EMOTIONAL EXP]I5CE40 0,A CLOSE RELATION%IP ) SOMEONE ?AT 5C\RAGES MUTUAL FEEL+ DEVELOPS S5SITIVITY1 CONSID]ATION & DELICACY 9 A P]SON4440 

,?IRDLY1 'GAME-LOVE' DOES NOT D]IVE FROM ! PR9CIPLE ( 'UNDISPUT$'1 POSSESSION1 & TEA*ES PEOPLE TO GIVE ONLY ?AT P>T ( !IR 'SELF' :I* IS NOT A BURD5 TO ! O!R1 & :I* HELPS ! O!R P]SON TO LEAD A BRI<T] LIFE4 ,?IS W\LD TEA* PEOPLE1 9 ,MEISEL-,HESS'S OP9ION1 A 'GREAT WISDOM' 9 ?AT !Y CAN ONLY GIVE ! :OLE SELF :5 !RE EXI/S FEEL+S ?AT >E IRREVOCABLE & ( 'SOLEMN' DEP?4 ,AT ! MOM5T WE >E TOO 9CL9$1 AFT] '! FIR/ KISS'1 TO 5CROA* ON ! :OLE P]SONALITY ( ! O!R P]SON1 TO B9D ABSOLUTELY ! O!R'S HE>T BE=E !RE IS ANY CALL = ?IS4 ,WE HAVE TO REMEMB] ?AT ONLY A 'GREAT LOVE' GIVES !SE 'RI<TS'4 

',GAME-LOVE' OR ']OTIC FRI5D%IP' HAS YET ANO!R ADVANTAGE-IT IS AN >MOR AGA9/ ! MURD]\S >R[S ( ,]OS4 ,IT TEA*ES PEOPLE TO )/& ! BURD5 ( LOVE & PASSION ?AT 5SLAVES & CRU%ES ! 9DIVIDUAL4 ,ACCORD+ TO ,MEISEL-,HESS1 IT 5C\RAGES1 9 ! WAY ?AT NO O!R =M ( LOVE DOES1 ! SELF-PRES]VATION ( ! 9DIVIDUAL4 

,!RE IS NO ROOM 9 SU* A RELATION%IP = ?AT AWFUL K9D ( DEVELOPM5T :I* C\LD BE CALL$ '! VIOL5T ASSAULT' ON ANO!R P]SON'S 'SELF4 ',GAME-LOVE' DOES NOT 9VOLVE ! GREAT 'FALL'1 ! LOSS ( ONE'S P]SONALITY 9 ! WAVES ( PASSION4 ,CONTEMPOR>Y HUMANITY LIVES UND] '! S9I/] SIGN' ( PASSION ?AT ALWAYS TRIES TO OV]:ELM ! O!R ',I'1 ! O!R P]SON4 ,9 ! NOVEL ,LASSVITSA ! GIRL FROM ,M>S MAKES ?IS REPLY TO ! MAN :O PR(ESSES LOVE = H]3 0,IF ,I W]E 9SPIR$ TO PLAY ! GAME ( FEEL+S ,I W\LD FALL UND] ! VIOL5T P[] ( PASSION1 ,I W\LD LOSE MY FRE$OM & W\LD HAVE TO GO ) Y\ TO E>?4 ,Y\R E>? IS P]HAPS BIGG] & MORE LUXURI\S1 BUT ,I W\LD RA!R DIE 9 ?IS H>% ATMOSPH]E4 ,Y\R HE>TS >E LIKE Y\R AIR3 !Y >E HEAVY4440 

,\R TIME IS EXCEPTIONAL 9 ?AT IT HAS NO '>T ( LOVE'4 ,PEOPLE >E ABSOLUTELY UNABLE TO DEVELOP LI<T & C>EFREE RELATION%IPS4 ,PEOPLE DO NOT RECOGNIZE ! VALUE ( ']OTIC FRI5D%IPS'4 ,LOVE IS EI!R A TRAG$Y ?AT TE>S ! S\L AP>T OR IT IS A VULG> VAUDEVILLE4 ,WE HAVE TO LEAD MANK9D FROM ?IS BL9D-ALLEY4 ,WE HAVE TO TEA* PEOPLE TO EXP]I5CE BRI<T & BEAUTIFUL EMOTIONS ?AT BURD5 NO ONE4 ,ONLY BY PASS+ ?R\< ! S*OOL ( ]OTIC FRI5D%IP IS MAN'S PSY*E CAPABLE ( FEEL+ A 'GREAT LOVE' ?AT IS COMPLETELY FREE ( ANY D>K ASPECT4 ,ANY EMOTIONAL EXP]I5CE 7?AT IS NOT JU/ ! CO>SE PHYSICAL ACT7 5RI*ES RA!R ?AN IMPOV]I%ES ! S\L4 0,A RI* & HEAL?Y HUMAN HE>T1 CAPABLE ( EXP]I5C+ LOVE IS NOT01 SAYS ,MEISEL-,HESS1 0A S&WI* TO BE GRADUALLY EAT540 ,LOVE IS A =CE :I* MULTIPLIES AS Y\ USE IT UP4 0,TO LOVE ! MORE 9T5SELY1 ! MORE (T5 & ! MORE SELF-ASSUR$LY IS ! PASSIONATE WAY ( EV]Y GREAT HE>T40 ,LOVE IS 9 ITSELF A GREAT CREATIVE =CE3 IT DEVELOPS & 5RI*ES ! PSY*E ( ! P]SON :O EXP]I5CES LOVE & ( ! P]SON TO :OM LOVE IS GIV54 

0,)\T LOVE HUMANITY FEELS ITSELF FOBB$1 UN=TUNATE & BEGG>LY4 ,!RE IS NO D\BT ?AT LOVE WILL BECOME ! CULT ( MANK9D 9 ! FUTURE4 ,& EV5 N[ 9 ORD] TO /RUGGLE TO LIVE1 TO WORK1 & TO CREATE MAN NE$S TO FEEL 'SURE' ( HIMSELF1 HE NE$S TO FEEL 'ACCEPT$'4 ,! MAN :O FEELS HIMSELF LOV$ ALSO FEELS HIMSELF TO BE ACCEPT$ & ?IS MAKES HIM MORE JOYFUL AT BE+ ALIVE40 

,BUT ! RECOGNITION ( ! ',I'1 ! SELF1 IS NOT A*IEV$1 & ! DESIRE TO ESCAPE ! EV]-PRES5T SPIRITUAL LONEL9ESS IS NOT FULFILL$ BY SIMPLY SATISFY+ PHYSICAL HUNG]4 0,ONLY ! FEEL+ ( BE+ 9 COMPLETE H>MONY ) ! LOV$ ONE WILL SATISFY A P]SON4 ,ONLY 'GREAT LOVE' GIVES FULL SATISFACTION4 ,! CRISIS IS MORE ACUTE :5 SOCIAL B>RI]S RE/RICT ! POT5TIAL = LOV+ ?AT IS 9 ! HUMAN S\L-:5 ! HUMAN PSY*E HAS HAD FEW EXP]I5CES ( FRI5D%IP & TOGE!RNESS40 

,! TASK ( ']OTIC FRI5D%IP' IS TO PREP>E & $UCATE ?IS POT5TIAL = LOV+ SO ?AT MAN IS READY = 'GREAT LOVE'4 

',GAME-LOVE' IS ( C\RSE ONLY A DEPUTY & SUB/ITUTE = 'GREAT LOVE'4 ,SOME PEOPLE WILL SAY IT IS NOT 5\<4 ,IF ?AT'S :AT !Y ?9K1 REPLIES ,MEISEL-,HESS1 LET !M LOOK AT :AT PASSES = LOVE AT ! PRES5T TIME1 AT ! PRO/ITUTION 'DRESS$' UP AS GREAT FEEL+4 ,:AT 9CR$IBLE FALSEHOOD1 :AT A /ACK ( LIES >E ACCUMULAT+ ON ?IS SUBJECT6 ,ONE EXAMPLE ?AT SPR+S TO M9D-A MAN & HIS FIANCEE >E 9 EA* O!R'S >MS BUT ! /RICT MORALITY CRIES3 0,Y\ MU/ WAIT04 ,! FIANCE VISITS A PRO/ITUTE1 :O DOESN'T WANT TO SLEEP ) HIM1 BUT HAS TO4 ,! GIRL FRI5D WANTS ! MAN BUT HAS TO WAIT UNTIL ! PRIE/ GIVES ! WORD4 ,IT W\LD BE MU* MORE NATURAL & MORE MORAL IF TWO PEOPLE :O WANT$ EA* O!R W]E TO SEEK FULFILLM5T 9 EA* O!R 9/EAD ( CONDEMN+ A ?IRD P]SON TO ! S]VICE ( !IR FLE%4 

,AP>T FROM ITS ROOTS 9 ! SOCIO-ECONOMIC /RUCTURE1 PRO/ITUTION IS DET]M9$ BY SOME?+ PSY*OLOGICAL ?AT IS DEEPLY ROOT$ 9 ! HUMAN S\L-! DESIRE TO OV]FL[ ) ']OTIC 9SPIRATION' )\T HAV+ TO LOSE FRE$OM & GIVE ! FUTURE AS PAYM5T1 )\T HAV+ TO PLACE ! 5TIRE ',I'1 ! 5TIRE SELF1 AT ! FEET ( ! P>TN] :O IS REALLY A /RANG]4 ,Y\ HAVE TO ACCOMMODATE SU* A NATURAL DRIVE4 ,Y\ CAN'T CA/ ! M>RIAGE BRIDLE OV] EV]Y UNGU>D$ LOV]4 ',GAME-LOVE' IS ! ANSW] ?AT PEOPLE HAVE BE5 LOOK+ =4 0,IF WE >E S9C]E1 IF WE DISP5SE ) ! SEXUAL LIE & ! HYPOCRISY ( \R MORALITY1 !RE IS NO REASON TO D\BT ?AT MANK9D AT A HI<] LEVEL ( CULTURAL DEVELOPM5T MI<T F9D ?IS K9D ( ANSW]1 IF C]TA9 SOCIAL RE=MS HAD BE5 A*IEV$40 7,MEISEL-,HESS EMPHASIZES ?AT !SE RE=MS >E A NECESS>Y PRE-CONDITION = ALL H] SUGGE/IONS AB\T A DIFF]5T MORALITY7 0444 !RE W\LD BE NO?+ WRONG 9 ']OTIC EC/ASY' ?R[+ TWO PEOPLE 9TO EA* O!R'S >MS444 'HEAV5' & 'HELL' HAVE GOT NO?+ TO DO ) IT40 

,F9ALLY1 ! EXACT LIMITS ( ']OTIC FRI5D%IP' >E V]Y VAGUE & UNDEF9$4 ,IT IS QUITE POSSIBLE ?AT PEOPLE COM+ TOGE!R ON ! GR\NDS ( SLI<T CONTACT & ATTRACTION WILL F9D EA* O!R1 & FROM ! 'GAME' WILL GR[ ! TREASURE ( 'GREAT LOVE'4 ,! QUE/ION REMA9S ( CREAT+ ! OBJECTIVE CONDITIONS = ?IS TO HAPP54 ,:AT >E ,MEISEL-,HESS'S CONCLUSIONS & PRACTICAL DEM&S8 

,SOCIETY MU/ ABOVE ALL LE>N TO ACCEPT ALL =MS ( P]SONAL RELATION%IPS H[EV] UNUSUAL !Y MAY SEEM1 PROVID$ !Y COMPLY ) TWO CONDITIONS4 ,PROVID$ ?AT !Y DO NOT AFFECT ! PHYSICAL HEAL? ( ! HUMAN RACE & PROVID$ !Y >E NOT DET]M9$ BY ! ECONOMIC FACTOR4 ,! MONOGAM\S UNION BAS$ ON 'GREAT LOVE' /ILL REMA9S ! IDEAL4 ,BUT ?IS IS NOT A P]MAN5T OR SET RELATION%IP4 ,! MORE COMPLICAT$ ! 9DIVIDUAL PSY*E ! MORE 9EVITABLE >E ! *ANGES4 0,A SUCCESSION ( MONOGAM\S RELATION%IPS0 IS ! BASIC /RUCTURE ( P]SONAL RELATION%IPS4 ,BUT SIDE BY SIDE !RE >E A :OLE RANGE ( POSSIBLE =MS ( ']OTIC FRI5D%IP' BETWE5 ! SEXES4 

,! SECOND DEM& IS ! ACCEPTANCE 9 PRACTICE & NOT ONLY 9 WORDS ?AT MAT]NITY IS 'SACR$'4 ,SOCIETY MU/ >RANGE ALL =MS & K9DS ( 'AID-/ATIONS' = WOM51 ?AT WILL GIVE !M MORAL & MAT]IAL SUPPORT DUR+ ?IS V]Y IMPORTANT P]IOD ( !IR LIVES4 

,LA/LY1 IT IS ESS5TIAL TO TAKE A LOOK AT ! MORAL EQUIPM5T :I* A GIRL SETT+ \T ON LIFE'S J\RNEY IS GIV51 O!RWISE WOM5 WILL BE AFRAID ( & CRU%$ BY FRE] RELATION%IPS4 

,! 5TIRE PRES5T-DAY $UCATION ( A WOMAN IS DIRECT$ TO CONF9+ H] LIFE TO EMOTIONS ( LOVE4 ,& SO WE GET !SE 'BROK5 HE>TS'1 !SE IMAGES ( WOM5 DROOP+ FROM ! FIR/ /RONG W9D4 ,WE MU/ OP5 UP ! WIDE GATES TO A MANY-SID$ LIFE4 ,WE MU/ /EEL A WOMAN'S HE>T & >MOR H] WILL4 ,IT IS TIME TO TEA* WOMAN TO TREAT LOVE AS A /EP1 AS A WAY ( F9D+ H] TRUE ',I'1 H] TRUE SELF1 & NOT AS H] :OLE EXI/5CE4 ,LET H] LE>N TO COME ?R\< AN EMOTIONAL CONFLICT AS A MAN DOES1 ) A /RONG] SPIRIT & NOT ) BROK5 W+S4 ,GOE!'S MOTTO WAS 0,BE ABLE AT ANY MOM5T TO DO AWAY ) ! PA/ & ACCEPT LIFE AS IF IT BEGAN TODAY40 ,!RE IS ALREADY HOPE1 ! NEW TYPE ( WOMAN IS EM]G+-! 'BA*ELOR WOMAN' = :OM LOVE IS NOT ! ONLY ?+ 9 LIFE4 ,%E DOESN'T LET ! WAVES ( LIFE HAVE ABSOLUTE CONTROL OV] H] EMOTIONAL EXP]I5CE1 A SEASON$ HELMSWOMAN IS AT ! :EEL ( ! BOAT4 ,H] SPIRIT HAS BE5 =G$ 9 ! BATTLE ( LIFE4 ,! 'BA*ELOR WOMAN' RE-P>APHRASES ! PHILI/9E EXCLAMATION ',%E HAS A PA/6'4 ',%E HAS A PA/'444 ,H[ CRUEL CAN FATE BE6 

,!RE MAY NOT BE MANY ( !SE WOM5 = A LONG TIME YET1 & A NEW SEXUAL ORD]1 ! *ILD ( A MORE P]FECT SOCIAL /RUCTURE1 WON'T BEG9 IMM$IATELY4 ,! LONG SEXUAL CRISIS WON'T 5D & GIVE WAY TOMORR[ TO ! MORALITY ( ! FUTURE4 ,BUT ! PA? HAS BE5 F\ND & ! =BIDD5 DOOR IS WIDE OP5 & BECKON+ 9 ! DI/ANCE4 ,MEISEL-,HESS'S BOOK GIVES US ',>IADNE'S ?READ' TO ! COMPLICAT$ LABYR9? ( SEXUAL RELATION%IPS & 9VOLV$ PSY*OLOGICAL DRAMAS4 ,WE %\LD USE ! VALUABLE PO9TS ?AT %E MAKES1 ?R[ \T SOME ( H] SUGGE/IONS1 RID O!RS ( IRRELEVANCIES & ( SLI<T 9ACCURACIES4 ,WE %\LD BR+ H] CONCLUSIONS 9 L9E ) ! BASIC TASKS ( ! RIS+ CLASS4 ,WE %\LD TRY TO F9D 9 ! PROBLEMS (1 & ! ATTITUDES TO1 SEXUAL RELATION%IPS1 & 9 ! PSY*OLOGY ( LOVE1 ! EMBRYO ( A NEW1 DEVELOP+ & 9EVITABLY VICTORI\S 'PROLET>IAN CULTURE'4 

,NOTES 

.<#a.>4 ,?IS >TICLE WAS WRITT5 AS A BOOK REVIEW ( ,! ,SEXUAL ,CRISIS1 BY ! ,G]MAN WRIT] ,MEISEL-,HESS4 ,IT IS A REM9D] ?AT ,KOLLONTAI'S IDEAS ON SEXUAL RELATIONS & WOM5'S LIB]ATION W]E P>T ( A MORE G5]AL F]M5T ( IDEAS ON !SE QUE/IONS 9 ,WE/]N ,EUROPE AT ! BEG9N+ ( ?IS C5TURY4 ,! ESSAY REFLECTS SOME ( ! PSY*OLOGICAL & SCI5TIFIC ?9K+ ( SIXTY YE>S AGO1 :I* N[ APPE>S MORE DAT$ ?AN ! SOCIAL & POLITICAL ?9K+ ( ! SAME P]IOD4 

.<#b.>4 ,:AT ,MEISEL-,HESS SAYS AB\T ! DI/ORTION ( ! MALE P]SONALITY 9 PRO/ITUTION IS ! KEY TO ANO!R FACT ?AT HAS NEV] BE=E BE5 DISCUSS$4 ,A MAN IS NOT US$ TO HAV+ TO ?9K AB\T A WOMAN'S PSY*OLOGICAL & EMOTIONAL EXP]I5CE4 ,?IS MEANS NOT ONLY ?AT HE IS UNABLE TO 'HE>' A WOMAN'S S\L1 BUT ) SURPRIS+ NAIVETY HE IGNORES H] PHYSICAL EXP]I5CE DUR+ ! SEXUAL ACT4 ,! DISSATISFACTION ?AT WOM5 FEEL BECAUSE ( ?IS IS KN[N ONLY TO DOCTORS2 IT FREQU5TLY CAUSES ILLNESS4 ,IT IS SURPRIS+ ?AT ,MEISEL-,HESS 9 TALK+ AB\T ! SELFI%NESS ( ! MALE P]SONALITY IS SIL5T ON ?IS PO9T1 :I* ?R[S LI<T ON MANY A DOME/IC CONFLICT4 ,:5 ,MAUPASSANT D>$ TO T\* ON ?IS QUE/ION 9 HIS NOVEL ,A ,LIFE 7,! ,HI/ORY ( ,ONE ,LIFE7 MO/ M5 GREET$ HIS REVELATION ) NAIVE BEWILD]M5T4 

.<#c.>4 ,ASPASIA WAS A ,GREEK C\RTESAN ( #dd ,B4,C4 ,%E WAS R5[N$ = H] WISDOM AS WELL AS H] BEAUTY1 & WAS ! MI/RESS ( ,P]ICLES1 AN ,A!NIAN /ATESMAN4 ,HE LEFT HIS WIFE = ,ASPASIA1 :OSE BRILLIANCE MADE H] H\SE A C5T] ( ,A!NIAN LIT]>Y & PHILOSOPHICAL LIFE4 

.<#d.>4 ,HAETA]A-A ,GREEK C\RTESAN4 ,GREEK C\RTESANS AT ONE TIME W]E HI<LY RESPECT$ 7SEE NOTE ON ,ASPASIA ABOVE7 & TOOK P>T 9 PUBLIC LIFE MU* MORE ?AN WIVES DID4 

.<#e.>4 ,GRIZETKA3 TAK5 FROM ! ,FR5* WORD 'GRISETTE'-A Y\NG & 'COQUETTI%' WORK+ GIRL4 

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